I dont think that women going for someone else's boyfriend/husband are necessarily needy or want to raise their self-esteem. It is a fact of life that after a certain age, lets say late twenties, the available men are hard to find and generally losers and the taken ones are the good catches. So...
There is no reason to feel sorry for me. I m having a lot of fun and if a "serious" relationship is what I m after, I could get it. The people to feel pity for are those stupid women who stay with the boyfriends even though they are unfaithful + the fact that they obviously cannot satisfy their...
Message for Syngirl: I have had no trouble making local female friends, I guess it has to do with social skills more than anything. I do think it is a good idea to split the group into two (singles and non-singles). I also think it is people like you who should be paranoid and neurotic. Why...