Thank you all for your amazing replies. I understand the bitter ones and why they can sound so cynical. I am equally cynical when I talk about Brazil.
I have been here on and off (mostly on) for 20 years. I have also lived in London, Barcelona, Ibiza (my old vacation destination), Paris and, in Brazil, Florianópolis, a short stretch in Rio, Ilheus, Itacaré, Valença, all in Bahia, São Paulo city and now in the interior. I love this country and at one point chose it as my home. I spent the next 10 years trying to become a citizen (although my father was Brazilian). Argentina is equally chaotic and bureaucratic and Brazil does not have the stability everyone thinks it has so that is not the issue with me.
I experienced the Alfonsin, Menem and Collor eras in both countries and they were just or more hectic than the one Argentina is experiencing now. We Latin Americans are used to the mess. Life in European countries becomes almost boring when you don´t have to worry about basic survival (well, maybe they do now). It might sound condescending and I know life in Europe can still be better (believe me, it was an option), but I am not so afraid of the economic issues. I have never liked the food in Brazil and some people I know in Argentina have warned me that I might not find the intellectual richness I am looking for, but crime in Brazil is crazy (things are seriously getting out of hand with the crack epidemic that the outside world is unaware of) and I did not experience that in Argentina. The meat is tasteless and as an Argentinian, I can´t live without good meat, and yes, life is very, very expensive here.
Eating sushi in a neighbourhood restaurant costs 50 USD for 3, only one beer. My rent is 500 USD in a small town and my living expenses are around 1500 USD, and this is a small town! A shopping cart of food is about 200 USD. We rarely eat out and never, ever travel. A box of cornflakes costs USD 5 and decent coffee costs about USD 3.50. The milk and dairy products in Brazil are really bad and the fruit and vegetable are good but they were better in Argentina. This might all seem idiotic, but I think no one has any idea how much I miss those things.
I don´t know if they still exist.
As for the cultural aspects, Argentinians read and reflect, something Brazilians do not often do. I am not being offensive, seriously. It´s just not part of the educational system or the culture. There might be great exhibitions because Brazil is supposedly fashionable right now, but few people appreciate or understand what they are seeing.
As I said before, the economic stability here is an illusion. People just have more access to credit and are spending money they don´t have. Default has risen historically, the government charges and invents new taxes everyday and Brazilians work 150 days a year just to pay tax. Brazilians are now buying SVUs and paying 4x the market value for goods in 100 instalments (including the car), just as the north americans did. In Brazil, we all know this is not going to end well. There are millions of articles in well-known newspapers and magazines on this problem. We don´t feel the stability, believe me.
I will take the last person´s advice (I´m afraid of looking up the name and losing all the text I just wrote
, and go to Argentina for a couple of months before deciding. I am really happy almost everyone agreed that living outside the city is a good idea. I remember just how hard it was 10 years ago living in BA and I was making a good salary...
If anyone wants to continue sharing their experiences, please do. They are very valuable to me.
Thanks again!