FYI Immigration told me I have step foot on Arg soil once a year if I do that then I can get my citizenship in two years even if I just spend two days here in the next two years. That is not the plan as my wife's mother is older and alone and needs us here as I can see it. The family says they can definitely see a change her since we came to live with her. We built a nice apartment off the back of the family property years ago. So we live rent free and her mother cooks like a God to say the least. I think for the elderly having people around and a routine makes a huge difference. But damn I would like to be URU for sure but I love my wife's mother like she was own mother. And of course married to daughter she looks as me as she would a son. Oh well such is the life. You get 20 raised by your parents, then you raise your kids for 20 years, then you 13 years solo and then back to your parents. I suppose after that I get 10 or 20 years waiting for my time to die. The cycle goes on.