I was not talking about you in particular, but if you go through the post, you will get a sense of how superior some people feel because they come from a certain background, when in reality their countries just enforce political correctness to avoid dealing their own current discrimination problems. We can all talk about anything, but have to acknowledge where we are coming from or it turns into hypocritical nonsense conversation.
No offence, but that doesn't wash with me. I am bi-cultural and make no excuses for my Argentine culture, nor my European. Again, this sounds like whataboutism.
"We can't talk about this because its outsiders who are hypocrites anyway". To me, this just sounds like the same old nationalist excuses for 'cultural' terms that 'the outsiders' couldn't possibly understand.
Again, this is just what used to be said about words like "faggot", "bitch", "Paki", "Ni***r" etc, etc. Each and every time the, usual nationalist, members of the culture say what Nikad is saying now.
I don't agree.
Now, I AM NOT SAYING that Nikad is a racist. And also, AGAIN, these terms can be used from a subjectively 'nice' "cariñoso" way. I'm sure that's the case when Nikad calls her cleaner "Negrita" or when Bajo calls his wife "Chinita". These are almost certainly well intentioned utterances. But this DOES NOT make it ok, and does not mean that its not socially damaging.
A progressive would want to progress on these issues, as cultures often do.
The naysayers will always find excuses why not, as will many from within the very discriminated communities. Nothing new here, sadly.
Many expats on this forum may not realise that the Argentine cultural zeitgiest has a strong fachista vein running through it.
The messy historical realities of how the black population were treated historically, and the zeal with which a rosey eyed version of this history is recounted, have been alluded to in this thread.
The old excuse of 'but we've called indigenous women chinita for centuries" only goes to show how other racialised vocabulary, inherited from the colonial times, have been around for even longer than the current instance we are discussing in this thread. The old version is just as abhorrent, and also widely excused because it has historical social backing.
Playing fast and loose with pejorative terms and excusing everything with nationalist type arguments is a longstanding tradition here, for some.
Other Argentines, such as myself, chose a different path.
(you can be an Argentine and an Expat at the same time, though I won't go into the ven diagram here!)