Steve is fine, I know why is this phenomenon. I'm colombian and I married a foreign myself ;-) is just sometimes annoying that I heard many times "hey dude, go to Colombia, if you want to have a nice girl". The fact is that Colombian girls are not satisfied with Colombian guys. Is a chauvinistic country and a lot of competition between the girls. few nice guys and lot of beautiful girls competing for the same ugly fat which for sure is going to fool all of them. Colombian guys are sweet, but they love to talk a lot and even if they are engaged with a girl they are cheating, I've seen it in my family and my friends at different levels. For a friendships the guys are amazing, lovely and sweet, but when is about respecting a woman, they don't know anything about love and respect. Is not simple the dynamic. Girls have to behave in certain way when guys are doing what they want...and while the society see them like machos, girls are being judge by theire behavior, so that's why girls prefer to have fun with a foreign that is open minded!