Brian,
It all depends on the hands of whom you trust your health, I also know of close friends who have paid private doctors to have deliveries with infections and other complications and ended up at Buenos Aires hospitals fixing what Conneticut doctors had missed (cleaning the uterus after the delivery, sthg very basic). As for my sister she has had her only child in the Baptist Hospital (Miami), to ask for a nurse was hell she would come every now and then, she was changed her sheets once in a week (she had a c-section and is now due in febraury for her second child doubting whether to come here some months earlier to have her delivery in BA), hadn't she been accompanied her experience would have been rated as negative. Mine experience at GU Hospital rates as well from 1 to 10 no more than a 4, very unpersonal, very burocratic, I saw the doctor for about no more than 2 minutes, and I think that that was too much. I was taken care by a nurse, and no matter how well prepared he or she is he still is not a doctor.
Not everything is roses in the first world.