Hi everyone,
I'm moving back to the states in a few weeks and, as can be expected, nostalgia is setting in. There are some things that I really like about the Argentine culture that I do not experience very often in the US - specifically their warmth and affection towards friends and family. (And even strangers.)
The kiss on the cheek to say hello and goodbye is the best example: I love it because with that gesture we overtly give a moment of attention and respect to each person in the room, recognizing that we are both human and that we are beginning or ending an experience together. To me it is a very warm, human way of interacting and I will miss this back in the states. I also enjoy the way that, in general, many Argentines are not afraid to touch and hug each other in the course of every day life, when just hanging out with friends or whatever. (Including the men.)
I have thought about whether I could sort of "bring this back" with me and try to introduce it to the friends I'll make where I'm moving next. But I have no idea how to do it without it being forced. I'm not sure it's possible. I may just need to accept that this is something I will need to leave behind.
Have you dealt with this before, whether it be something from the Argentine culture or another culture? Is it possible to introduce something like that to people who have never experienced the real thing?
I'm moving back to the states in a few weeks and, as can be expected, nostalgia is setting in. There are some things that I really like about the Argentine culture that I do not experience very often in the US - specifically their warmth and affection towards friends and family. (And even strangers.)
The kiss on the cheek to say hello and goodbye is the best example: I love it because with that gesture we overtly give a moment of attention and respect to each person in the room, recognizing that we are both human and that we are beginning or ending an experience together. To me it is a very warm, human way of interacting and I will miss this back in the states. I also enjoy the way that, in general, many Argentines are not afraid to touch and hug each other in the course of every day life, when just hanging out with friends or whatever. (Including the men.)
I have thought about whether I could sort of "bring this back" with me and try to introduce it to the friends I'll make where I'm moving next. But I have no idea how to do it without it being forced. I'm not sure it's possible. I may just need to accept that this is something I will need to leave behind.
Have you dealt with this before, whether it be something from the Argentine culture or another culture? Is it possible to introduce something like that to people who have never experienced the real thing?