I suppose it depends on what associating with someone actually means. If you mean hang out and have professional relationships, then no you do not have to and should not have to associate with any group through force (although professionally the law disagrees in some aspect).
However, isn't forced segregation and seperation the only way to truly solve the issue of someone not wanting to associate with a certain group? I mean, if by association you mean see them on the street, in the same places as you?
My understanding is that you are using "associate" in the truest sense of the word and you should indeed not be forced. That word is also used more loosely as just to be around someone or something, regardless of personal interaction and for me the only solution would either be to segregate oneself, or the whole group. Some kind of social interaction is inevitable surely, so you cannot really avoid the guy in the orange t-shirt, forced or not.
I can avoid the guy in the orange t-shirt to an extent. I certainly don't have to sit down at the same table and eat with him and if he comes into a restaurant where I'm eating and his shirt hurts my eyes, I should be free to leave so I don't have to associate with him. Of course, those few moments we are in the same space I have had an association, but at least I don't have a government employee with a loaded weapon standing behind me forcing me to remain there.
Social association is easy to understand, and indeed easy to avoid if wanted. What I'm really talking about, and have mentioned previously specifically and in my last post sort of peripherally, is political association. That was also what I was thinking Khairy was getting at when he was talking about separation and segregation, though I'm not talking forced, but rather voluntary. The guy in the orange shirt was an example, which I expanded a bit more in the paragraph above in relation to governments.
The Civil War, to me, is one of the biggest examples of forced association that I can think of in US history, as so many were killed to enforce the association that Lincoln, et al, supposed was necessary to continue the "great US experiment". Indeed, it was exactly the opposite in my opinion, i.e. the worst thing that could have been done. Means justifying the end kind of situation.
Can there be any doubt that the South wanted to disassociate from the North? Whatever its reasons. You (in general) may not agree with their reasons, but should such associations really have been forced? Given that many think the South would have given up slavery and indeed couldn't have maintained it economically even if they didn't want to give it up, and indeed there was already talk of allowing that to happen before the war broke out anyway, what right did Lincoln even have to force that association on to others, at the cost of so many lives? Did the nearly 700,000 on both sides that died really buy anything that was worth all of that death? Again, freeing the slaves is a grand ideal, but that wasn't Lincoln's interest, the man admitted it himself. The effects of all that death and the advantage-taking by carpet-baggers from the North afterward and the resentment felt by southerners afterward toeard both Northerners and former slaves is still felt a century and a half later.
In modern times, I wish to disassociate myself from things like Obama's horrendous health care legislation. Only by the fact that I pay for health insurance here can I do so without problems. I have a friend in the States who pays the fine every year because he wants to self-insure. And in fact, he has the money to do it. But the government is forcing him to associate with those the government deems need insurance. He has no choice in the matter. He actually pays less putting his money into a savings account and paying the fine than he would pay for his family of 6 (including himself) when his insurance rates more than doubled as a result of the wonderful healthcare bill that won't resolve anything. And he gets just as good service, and in fact, he has found that many medical services are actually cheaper when he pays in cash outside of the healthcare system in general because they don't have to deal with all the bureaucratic crap that government legislation meant to "fix: things actually causes.
As I mentioned previously - if I don't want to hire a Muslim, for whatever reason, I'm sorry, but I shouldn't have to. If I want to terminate a person because I don't like the way he cuts his hair, I should be able to. If I offend someone because I fart to much in the office and the owner wants to fire me, he should be able to. Those are personal associations that at least the US government actually forces on us, and many times, to the detriment of society, even though the intentions of such laws are ostensibly "good". Affirmative Action is something that I think stinks to high heaven and I've seen it in action and seen the results of it, back in the 90s. I watched a guy take advantage of AA in my department to the point where he basically didn't have to work and could bitch and moan on the phone all day to anyone who would listen while the rest of us had to work.
Governments should not force associations upon its people, but the truth is, governments couldn't survive if they didn't. In my opinion, everyone who goes along with this without protest are sheep who are not realizing they are being lined up to make mutton chops, and those who would push the government to force associations are the wolves who are going to profit.