It's time for a New Life...

mclovin said:
Maybe a "veteran" such as yourself would be better suited to reply to his post.

You could perhaps mention all of the nice budget hotels and restaurants that he could visit, possibly even offer to find him and his new love a vacancy at one of the companies you know who are hiring, maybe even find him an apartment near to yourself then you could sit and listen to him bull shit on about his divorce.

foad

I'd be happy to help him in any way I could, but I live 650 KM from Capital Federal and I don't know anything about jobs as I never really had one. :p

Now why don't you reply to my post.

What makes you think he would have any more to say about his divorce?

People who find a new love or reignite an old one (even after 25 years) usually don't have much more to say about their ex or their divorce than the OP said in his first post.
 
So 25 years ago you broke up with "your one true love" whom you met at junior school and now your back together because of your terrible divorce?

She must feel so privileged that she wasn't good enough all those years ago and now that your confidence has been shattered by your ex-wife she suddenly falls into the "one true love" category.

Do here a favor and set her loose!

Your obviously still hung up on your "war of the roses" divorce otherwise you would not have mentioned it in your opening line

Next time maybe word your opening line like this

I am a big loser and just been ditched by my ex. I can't stand to be in the same city/town as her, as the embarrassment is just too much to bare.

I have managed to convince an old girlfriend (that i never really liked when we were together) to drop everything and run away to BA with me to help me regain my confidence. Once we are there and I am familiar with the area and realize that there are many more girls in the world once stop crying about my ex, I intend to drop her and send her back home and start a new relationship with some hot spanish speaking chick.

BA is not the answer to YOUR problems!

total psychopath. that guy is scary.
 
Mclovin, didn't your mom ever tell you that if you have nothing nice to say, then just shut the f*#k up? Someone is trying to be happy here and ask for some advice to start a new life. Clearly you hate yours so much that you feel a night to ruin someone elses day. If you hate it here so much then just get out because nobody here needs that kind of negativity.

On another note, to David: I fully respect your decision to make the move here but there re defintiely a few thigns to keep in mind before you make the move permanent. As was mentioned above, many multinationals are exiting Argentina and more will continue to do so in the next few years. Second, you should absolutely live here for at least a month and see if it is the place for you before you make it permanent. Third, definitely make sure you have a job before you commit to anything long term. We have had experience with all of these issues and luckily its not to late to reconsider our plans. Jobs here just are not that easy to find and when they are found the salaries are much lower than elsewhere in the world and rarely take into account ever-rising inflation. WHatever you decide to do here though, I wish you the best of luck and all the success in the world.

As far as McLovin goes, go cry your lonely self to sleep while you think about how being nice to people may actually make you feel some sort of goodness. Or maybe not.
 
davidb0rquez said:
After the ugliest divorce since the War of the Roses and getting back together with my Elementary, then High School Sweetheart after 25 years (yes, my One True Love), WE are ready to start a new life, and Buenos Aires looks like the absolute perfect place for us.

I've worked in Information Technology for over 20 years and enjoyed a successful career, but I still want to work in technology in BsAs. I have a degree in Computer Science, and several certifications, including MSCE, CCNP, VCP and Six Sigma (which may mean nothing in BsAs), and would like to know if anyone has any suggestions for me to get this going in the right direction.

We do speak Spanish, but we definitely need to brush up; we grew up learning and listening to Spanish in our families.

I also have a few questions that I'm sure are answered somewhere on this board, and if someone could help point me in the right direction, I'd be eternally grateful.

- Can anyone give me suggestions for CV formats?
- Where the best job boards are; I've found a few and have started that process, but I'm looking for some direction.
- How hard is it to get sponsored by a company?
- Does anyone have any good contacts for working the VISA process and eventually residency in BsAs?

Thank you for all your help in advance and when I'm there, I'll treat you to mate and heartfelt gratitude. We're looking to make the move as soon as possible.




As someone drawn into the fire of the ugliest divorces in history here including physical violence against me and my family you have my sympathies. As they always say here" You never know a woman until you DIVORCE her" . My own mother married her childhoold sweetheart when my father died and theyve been rockin and rollin for 32 years so dont mind the nay sayers. If your heart and intentions are true you will be happy living in a cardboard box in Idaho!
The job sites recommended are spot on. FYI the visa/sponsorship process is all the work of the employer. I am a local employer so I know the ropes. Your local employer interested in hiring you needs to do all the paperwork so come here and get scouting for interviews and once you get an offer that's when the work starts. It will take longer than you think, likely but IT specialists are in demand and do command high salaries for here. My only tip is not obsess over cv format..job portals are the driving force of the industry where you have to enter answers to specific questions/scenarios. have an up to date cv with a photo but dont sweat the format...spell check it as I hate cvs with typos!

Come, try it, enjoy...Bsas may not be paradise but it is a land of opportunities for positive types and there is never a dull day!:D
 
Seems everything is above board here!

Just your typical expat forum, nothing exciting going on here.

Move along, carry on with your business!

Nice to know the pubs will be safe for another year and normal people won't be goaded into conversations about picnics or the latest kindle release.

Thanks god for forums, they really keep "martha stewarts" of the streets

REST IN PIECES
 
Adecco is another place to try for tech jobs. Most of the jobs have been outsourced here by foreign companies (IBM, Reuters, HP, etc) and while they pay good salaries by argentine standards, you will not be earning near the same level salary as elsewhere and with high rental prices for foreigners and inflation, this probably will involve some significant lifestyle changes. Even so, these companies usually sponsor visas and include health insurance packages in their salaries which is a major plus...especially if you already have savings or a property here to subsidise your lifestyle
 
mclovin said:
Seems everything is above board here!

Just your typical expat forum, nothing exciting going on here.

Move along, carry on with your business!

Nice to know the pubs will be safe for another year and normal people won't be goaded into conversations about picnics or the latest kindle release.

Thanks god for forums, they really keep "martha stewarts" of the streets

REST IN PIECES

I have a feeling if you met a couple of these people in the streets the conversation would go differently. Hide behind that computer and spout off at the mouth you cryby sniper you.
 
I am disappoint.

Popcorn finished.

Should probably get a keg in, boomerang effect.

davidb0rquez, what does your partner do? Two earners are better than one!
 
David, I can sympathize with just about everything you posted. Don't listen to the asswipe that attacked you without provocation - all kinds come here and post, and some of them have some undesirable ways of expressing themselves.

Six years ago I divorced my wife of twenty years and moved to Buenos Aires myself. The divorce itself wasn't so bad, it was everything that came after, for me, that was horrible. But I ended up meeting a wonderful Paraguayan and we married four years ago. I'm in the IT business. I actually came down here originally to outsource development projects back to the States. I'm a programmer/project manager by trade.

I would urge caution on your move. I'm definitely not saying don't do it, but make sure you understand what you're getting yourself into.

On the IT side of things - when I came here, it was a pretty good market. I worked with a company who provided us programmers, but I ended up having to fire them and hire individuals because the company was all show. Managed its programmers poorly, actually cheated at times on billing (could have been mistakes, but we didn't think so because of how it happened) and paid their programmers so poorly in an attempt to give their clients a good price that there turned out to be a higher than acceptable turnover rate.

Most of the development work here is from international companies coming to take advantage of what used to be relatively good IT training to pay ratio. However, I have found that after the crisis in 2008 that programmer's pay in the States had fallen to a point where, with the other problems one encounters here, it is about the same to hire someone there instead, given all considerations.

I think other companies who came here for development work feel the same. I have two programmers here who I had rehired about a year ago, who were looking for work. They were having a hard time finding decent jobs. A third one went to work for a company in the States, telecommuting, because he couldn't find a decent job here.

You probably won't be able to get a white-collar job at all without having residency. That may not be so bad. Depending on your experience, you may be able to find a local company who will sponsor you, considering you speak English and they may find that great for their foreign clients. You can get residency fairly easily if you have an annuity of some sort, or an investment that pays dividends, etc, that you can prove. I think getting a job will be difficult though, because the IT market here isn't quite what it was.

You can't get a bank account here without residency. Not a terrible thing as you can (at least for now) get money out of cash machines to live, pay rent, etc. Many of the cash machine limit you to 1000 pesos a transaction and can become a bit expensive for things like paying rent. But once you are here awhile, there are advantages to having a bank account that can make life a bit easier. Something as simple as buying something online - I used to be able to buy movie tickets online with my US bank debit card, but within the last year or so, more companies are not accepting them for online purchases. Alto Palermo Cines does, but Recoleta doesn't. I used to be able to charge my Movistar phone with my debit card instead of buying prepaid cards, but not any more (I ended up getting a monthly plan with Personal, but you need a DNI to do that). Recently, my health insurance through Hospital Aleman wouldn't allow me to re-register my new bank card for monthly payments because it was not an Argentine bank. Many of the stores and supermarkets and movie theaters give you discounts (pretty good too) if you have a local account.

The economy here is falling apart. The government INDEC reports an inflation rate of 9.9%, while independent sources report anywhere from 25% to 35%. There seems to be no end in sight. The government is so concerned about that, that they have made huge problems for those who report the more correct inflation rates. The only internal source one can trust now is a group of Argentine lawmakers who stand up in Congress and give a report that really twists the president's panties in a wad.

Cristina recently put in place heavy import restrictions. We're beginning to see a lack of things as the warehouses run empty and no sign yet that she is planning to lift the restrictions any time soon.

You can't easily change pesos for dollars, and the peso is not always accepted even in places like Paraguay to change to the local currency. In Paraguay, last I heard (my wife just got back from there) when you can change you get something like 700 Guarani to the Peso, whereas the official rate is around 1000. When I first came here, the Guarani was 2800 to 1 Peso.

Another thing to think about is housing. Due to the laws here, you will have an extremely hard time renting with any kind of long-term lease. And in fact, we just heard that they are planning on changing some of those laws and we are wondering what affect that might have - probably not better, maybe no real change. But the only way you will be able to rent to begin with is most likely to be temporary, furnished apartments that are about twice the cost of a long-term rental. By law you cannot have a short-term lease longer than 6 months, but something about that was going to change (I can't remember what - there is a thread posted about it). Depending on the new law, that might not be so bad now - when I first came here there was a strong tourist business going and most apartments didn't have that kind of opening in their rent schedules. The longest term I found in almost two years was 4 months. Most of them were a month at a time, a few two. Given that things are getting worse and tourism seems to be dropping off, you might be able to find a full six month term (until the new law screws that up, if it does).

On top of that, a lot of people get ripped off by the owners of temporary apartments (well, not just temporary, but that is the most common I think). They find reasons to hold your deposit, no matter how well you take care of the apartment. Not all of the time. Out of some 12 different apartments I had, I only had problems with three. But I was in the supermarket a couple of days ago, talking to some expats from the UK, who were having problems closing out their month-long lease for this reason.

To get long-term leases you need a guarantee. This is almost always in the form of property. At the time of the signing, the owner of the property to be used as guarantee signs that the property will be used to cover any issues that arise on the side of the tenant. As you can imagine, it's potentially signing away quite a bit and not all that easy to find someone willing to do so.

Some people manage to find owners who are willing to rent to foreigners without a guarantee, but they are not easy to find. It takes some time to find them. Some owners will take the entire term of the contract up front, plus deposits, but not easy to find them either. The problem is that the laws here make it extremely difficult (as in something like two years in court) to get a renter out of your apartment, for any reason. If they don't leave, or don't pay the rent, the owner can bring action to recoup their loss via the guaranteed property.

You can buy here, but now it may not be a particularly easy process, particularly with the economy and the government's issues with bank transfers, etc. Personally, I don't want to own anything here on that scale because I don't trust the government.

In 2001, the last crash, the government stole 2/3 of the people's dollars in their accounts overnight with no warning. My wife was in the bank today standing in line and was listening to a local telling another that he is trying to get all of his dollars out of his bank before the economy collapses in 6 months (his opinion - I think it's going to be more like the end of the year, maybe a little later). Of course, with the restrictions the government has put on dollars here he is having a hard time getting it all out. I wouldn't be surprised if something similar happens if (when) the economy collapses this time.

I haven't mentioned the daily irritations that one can find if one looks. Bad service, bad manners, cheats, lack of availability of things one month that have always been available before, etc., etc. Those things you get used to after awhile, and in fact, they didn't even really impact me until I'd been here for about a year. It gets worse the more you integrate with the society here. Even the Argentinos complain about the same things.

There are probably more things, but I've probably put out enough to think about it.

If I were you, and you were bent on coming down, I'd make sure I had enough money to live for about a year here with no income from here. I work for clients in the States, so I'm not impacted by the local economy except for the lack of things and possibly in the future related to such things as being able to get money out of ATMs if the economy collapses. I would not want to depend on a local source of income.

The truth is, if I had come here now instead of 6 years ago and hadn't gone and gotten myself established, I doubt I would have stayed. As it is, we are thinking seriously of leaving and moving to Paraguay come the end of the year. We're waiting to see what things look like in the coming months.

Either way, good luck with your plans.
 
PhilipDT said:
What is your problem?

The problem is easy to figure out.

If it's a woman then she's a bitter hair pie.

If it's a guy then he's a bitter hair pie.
 
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