You get used to this stuff, I guess. But last year in Europe, visiting friends and family, I felt quite bad seeing half priced much better things in their homes.
That's exactly what I felt! Some 6 years ago I was home shopping to buy a place for life in my home country. We visited several shops to get an idea of how much a remodeling would cost - furniture, tiles, bathroom stuff, etc. Since we love cooking, and a kitchen lasts for life, we had cost estimates ranging from 10k to 20k for a full kitchen of good quality (nothing hi-end, just cabinets + appliances). Then for a number of reasons we opted for renting, and we rented a partially furnished place with a cheap kitchen (or so I thought back then, IKEA-like as far as quality, with a less stylish design).
When I think about it
now, I feel like I am living in a camping, with an ugly white kitchen with 4 burners all so big... some dishes I always burn, I cannot slow cook on low heat, the oven has basically two temperatures: 0°C and 230°C, ecc.
And moving here, I gave up to a lot of little comfortable things I never paid attention to, little things that alone don't justify my frustration but that if summed up really wear me down. A couple of days ago I was really sad and blue and started to heavily question my move here. As you said, if you spend some months here, it is not
so bad. But if you live here, stay here, and deal 365 days at year with this, it can become pretty frustrating very quickly.
I was ignorantly thinking that having more money than the average Argentinian I could replicate my standard of life I had in Europe, but the truth is, some things, money don't buy!
From the poor quality food (a flour good for nothing, a milk that is mostly water, dairy products that makes look McDonald's cheese like a gourmet thing, pasta that melts and unfold when cooked) to the poor standard of building, the poor hygienic standard for food (ever met pigeons in the supermarket elsewhere? and what about the number of stomach sickness you get here), it's all poor, poor, poor.
Really, I had better than this... I can afford better than this. Why am I here?! I don't think we will be here very long.