joeteixido said:I was just talking to my Argentine wife on these lines the other day. It is not a rule, but I think you are right for the most part. I was astonished by the lack of negotiation skills found in general. In example, and not to hijack the thread, I am into collectibles (a lot of useless stuff) and sometimes they see you as a "foreigner" sothey ask 300% what they just asked my wife 2 mins ago. When you try to "negotiate" something you usually get a "te pensas que soy boludo" statement of some sort, not a second offer, nothing. Usually ZERO value is given on building a client-customer relationship and it happens with everything from used cars, to renting, everything is according to "la cara del cliente" too
There are exceptions tho, there are a couple of guys that while not the cheapest I always kept going back to (like I go to their store once a week) and sometimes I even walk in and have a coffee with the owner and I don't need to buy anything. I know that when he finds something interesting he will call me first, and I will make him an offer, then he'll probably come with some other number and we "negotiate" something that is fair for both parts... no hard feeling of any kinds towards each other for saying "hey I'm not comfy with that number, what about X"... and that is why I take my business there.
As far as renting goes, I was just announced mine will go from 2.4k to 3.8k AR$ when my current contract expires within a few months. I think they are trying to take advantage of the fact that we are having a baby boy in 2 weeks and we won't be able to hunt for another appartment fast enough. They KNOW they have guaranteed business with me and I was never late, apt is in much better condition because we did some improvements, we have a great relationship with everybody else in the building... and yet they will try to squeeze a little more out of us :/
Yes, this is the culture and I would say that it IS a rule. A rule with some exceptions, of course. There are always exceptions but it is a rule. That's my point. Expats have to live with it.
The level of resentment toward western expats, especially Americans, is strong. It is assumed that you have a lot of money and that you SHOULD pay more. Here is one of many real life examples: American walks into real estate agency in Recoleta. Sees a property he is interested in. Says he could offer $5,000 less than the asking price. Real estate agent says "no way" and REFUSES to take offer to owner. Agent comments "ANY American can get an extra $5,000"! American answers: "Not this one. What I am offering is already over my budget". American leaves office. A few weeks later he passes the agency and sees that the property he was interested in had sold. He sends an Argentine friend in to make some inquiries and find out how much it sold for. Answer: It sold for LESS than the American was willing to pay. The agent preferred to cut his nose off to spite himself rather than make any concessions to the foreign buyer. I've seen this over and over in real estate and business in general. It's probably more of an Argentine thing, very mixed up with arrogance, than a Latin style.