syngirl said:
Validitorian, with your last post you've revealed that you really can't learn it all on the internet.
Only by living here, or visiting for a long long time, will you truly understand that "back-door" is the way it all happens here. So much of life here is back door, grease this hand, grease that one etc etc. I know so many people (Argentines and Expats) who have been on both sides, have paid all the bribes necessary to get their house built, their business set up, their visa pushed through, their name bumped to the top of whatever list necessary. I also know the ones that have been ripped off by business partners (one for US$10k, another for US$35k), the ones that have had their houses broken into and held hostage for 2 hours while the thieves ransacked their home and filled up the car (an Argentine family living on Costa Rica near Scalabrini -- the thieves entered the house by holding a gun to the Coto delivery man's head), I also know a guy who only found out when he went to sell his PH that he couldn't do it because the piece of land it was sitting on was titled to a dead woman last known to be in Tokyo in 1990 -- did he sit through years and years of legal proceedings and spend thousands trying to find out whether there were any relatives that may make a claim? No, he paid the bribe and sold his house with false papers. Leave it to whoever bought it to discover that little gem when they try to sell.
I know many many many an Argentine that has paid to make their problems of all types go away. If you really want to live here and have no way to do it with visas, do it the Argentine way -- illegally. If you can't live with yourself by doing that, then Argentina is no place for the faint-hearted and maybe home will be more appealing.
You still haven't answered though -- how does your wife have a visa??
This will be the last response on the subject from me. We have gotten very far off-topic. I didn't ask if I should be moving to Argentina, I asked how.
In response to you, syngirl:
"with your last post you've revealed that you really can't learn it all on the internet"
You just proved yourself wrong, as you explained,
over the internet, how it works in Argentina. I already knew that, of course -- it's not exactly a secret. However, there is still something to be said for morals, and GOOD judgment. Again, if I was a bachelor, that might be tempting for me, but with a family, I'm not going to needlessly risk legal problems for something that can be solved in a more official manner. The earliest we would be moving is in 6 months, so I'm not in a big hurry, and there's plenty of time for whatever paperwork needs to be processed.
People are murdered every day just about anywhere you go, so hearing about people being kidnapped/held hostage/etc really has no consequence. I could get mugged on my daily jog around my house.
FYI, my wife does not have a visa at this point, that's something I am researching as well.
Let's try to keep this on topic. I appreciate everyone's concerns that some people end up deciding that they don't like Argentina after they get there, and that's a chance I'm willing to take. I am financially stable, even with the falling economy, and nothing short of an entire collapse would hinder that (at which point, I would be no better off living in the USA than Argentina)
This may help clear the air: I'm currently just looking into OPTIONS. I'm not signing my life away here, I'm looking into what all the possibilities are, and then I will decide on the right coarse of action. If I decide that it's too costly to "test" Argentina when I apply for residency, I'll just come in as a tourist and scope out the area. Chances are if we don't like it, we'll just move on to Brazil (which I did like) or perhaps China or Japan - I have complete freedom of mobility, so long as I have an internet connection and a computer, so the worst case scenario is that we just move. Not that bad.
Again, I really do appreciate everyone's concerns, and if you really feel compelled to impress even further that you disagree with my decision, please do so via private messages. Thanks.