I recently celebrated my "10 year anniversary" with Argentina, and it seems that I will not be leaving anytime soon. My husband is Argentine, and he has always been very close to his extended family here. Although I kinda already knew what I was getting into when we got married, family became especially important to him after our son was born, as mine is scattered all over the United States, whereas here, he has cousins, grandparents, etc.
I definitely have my moments of "bronca,"and fantasies about catching a one-way flight back, but I have to acknowledge that it was my choice to come here a decade ago, and that realistically, it is not likely that we will start over in the States (for various reasons).
As for my expectations??? Err... to expect the unexpected, undoubtedly!