Meeting Women (to date)

[French jurist]

Rumi has about 3 or 4 times as many guys as girls on any given night.

I was in Rumi on a friday night a month ago and I can assure you that it was 50/50. Nevertheless it was very very young (18/21) but the girls were absolutely stunning (damn, too bad I'm not 20 years youngers).
In fact, in 20 years of clubbing, I've never seen such a density of hotties (younger readers of the forum should definitely give it a try on friday nights only = I can guarantee you that you'll exclaim yourself "I can't believe it" at least ten times during the night).

On thursday nights, it's rather crowded with people aged 30/45, with 1980s music. And beware of the "semi pros".

As for Amerika, I agree that the girls who go there for the purpose of not being harassed nevertheless since there is less competition... Also, beware too of "surprises" there !

 

[Bajo_cero2]

My best understanding is that local women are not really interested in men in bars. From what I've read, if you pick up a girl in a bar here you can expect to pay.

Well, I have date girls I met at Bars or Discos my whole life.
He asked for techniques, be or pretend to be very confident about your self and start talking with girls, simple like that. It won´t work at the beginning but you will learn from the feedback what works and what doesn´t. Never talk about work or money or studies. Don´t tell them how beautiful they are and don´t show interest, not too much. Argentinians love to reply with uncomfortable questions just for fun, just don´t play that game changing the subject.
Keep eye contact and speak very close and just advance, be reckless. If you are successful about having a chat, just kiss her.
Regarding America, you can avoid the chat and just kiss her, but, be very sure she was born as a girl.
The standard way to finish the night with her is just do not propose it but offer to escort her to the bondi stop, once you are there, you escort her home, once there she might prepare lunch later. Regards

 

[French jurist]

It won´t work at the begging but you will learn from feedback what works and what doesn´t.

Nice typo "begging" is "mendicidad". I guess that "beginning" was meant.

As for Amerika and the "surprises" I mentionned, that's exactly what I meant

 

[esllou]

Thanks for the suggestions and advice everyone! I am thinking of starting to take yoga classes since I've done that quite a bit in the US. I'm also looking into taking a class or two at UBA for fun, and to meet new people. Any other ideas would be welcome. It seems like they some might be interested in dating a norteamericano to improve their English?

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[Johnny]

As for "El verde" mentioned awhile back in this thread, a friend of mine refers to it as "The Wrinkle Room". I don't hold a grudge against wrinkles but it is a pretty accurate indication of the age there.

 

[Bajo_cero2]

Nice typo "begging" is "mendicidad". I guess that "beginning" was meant.

As for Amerika and the "surprises" I mentionned, that's exactly what I meant

Jajajaja, corrected. Well, it might work but I don´t do it, begging. Jajajaja

 

[Canick]

be bold and brave and direct. just walk up and introduce yourself and stumble through whatever spanish you have. you will know in a few minutes if she is interested or not. ask about her life, interests and don' t spent a lot of time talking about yourself if she never asked. for non dance clubs, Congo on wed-fri is usually good. Cafe Rio on wed nights. Thames 878, Carnal terrace, milion and for your age, i suppose Casa bar and sugar. all these place are tourist / expat heavy, but as such they tend to get argentine women who go there looking for them. good luck!

oh, and i completely agree that non night time places, like hobby/activity clubs are the best way to meet someone.

but what do I know, I'm still single so Ignore everything I just said.....

 

[French jurist]

but what do I know, I'm still single so Ignore everything I just said.....

That's my case too, maybe I should refrain from giving such advices

 

[Bajo_cero2]

Well, my best advice is "learn to dance". Dolina used to say "whatever men do is for getting girls, instead of dancers who don´t need to do nothing at all". A big true. Regards

 

[Roxana]

Let me give my grain of sand. As an argentinian woman who lived abroad, my main conclusion is that there are universal issues, you cant be there following a script because it wouldnt work out, however you need to have good lines to follow. A woman likes the man to be charming in every step, and I mainly agree with what was written by Bajo_Cero and French Jurist. As you know, women are intuitive, so a woman perceives that the guy is a good person, and then she feels comfortable with him. You dont need to lecture her on any issue. Also, there are few situations where you need to be sensitive about cultural diversity. Recently I met a British guy at a milonga. Firstly I told him about my interest in the history of the tango, he replied that it doesnt exist at all, he kept saying that the tango is like the salsa and you need to know that there are several styles. Imagine my response. He answered that England does have history because it has more than thousand years of life, America has more 200 years of history, but that Argentina doesnt have any history at all, because this country has only 100 years of life. He ABSOLUTELY lost me, I dont want to waist any second of my life with a guy like him, besides the fact that he is handsome and has the typical british charm.

You just need to have the good vibe inside you, and you will find a partner/partners.

Be aware of the strong anti-american feeling (or political ideology) that some argentinians have. I have argentinian friends who dont want to have to hang out with a foreigner at all.

Your main winning point is that there is an stereotipe that argentinian men, specially in Buenos Aires, are chantas and lossers in life. So, keep that in mind when "selling" yourself to THE special woman. You can flirt to get a coffee or a life with her, who knows???

Best of good luck, and let us know about your achievements!!!