livingabroad said:
Our kids want to stay in one place but more and more we like the idea of moving around.
Arriving smack in the middle of the year, your kids are not just going to be the new kids, they're going to be the new foreign kids. That's piling on a lot for them to deal with -- new country, new language, new school, now new places every few weeks? few months? -- Your kids are 10 and 13 -- I'm sorry, but they are at the age where rather than embrace the experience, they could turn on you two for dragging them through it!
I know a lot of friend's who were diplomat's kids. They didn't think moving around was a great adventure -- they thought it sucked.
How long are you coming down here for? You say you'll only be in BA for four months, but then is your entire trip much longer? Because aren't the American schools about to get out for summer, in which case won't it only be a month or two of school that they'll miss? If that's the case I would just get a private tutor for them -- contact the American or British embassies, they keep lists of schools for expats, so they may also have names for tutors, and if not the schools should be able to provide them.
Anyway, make sure the kids are involved in the decisions, that way they won't feel like this is all being forced on them.