GS_Dirtboy said:
And yes, the "rules to live by" here are not the rules to live by in Alabama, or in Philadelphia (most parts) and those rules might be a bit more particular for "Yankees." Many of these suggestions have already been posted here. When I first came to Argentina from my comfortable middle-class US suburbia I thought the rules were the same. My Brasilian wife quickly re-oriented my brain-housing-group to how life is here and in Brasil.
This is very true. I had to go through the same orientation with my husband.
Don't stand on the sidewalk outside of work with your laptop.
Lock the doors if you're waiting inside the car.
Unfasten your seatbelt while waiting for the garage door.
Leave the key in the door turned when you lock up at night.
Don't leave your car windows down at red lights.
Don't ever take your eyes off your purse - leaving it on a shopping cart, slung on a chair at a restaurant, or on a bench at a park or shopping center.
Don't walk around with expensive visible items.
It's seems like common sense, second nature stuff now... but when I came I hardly thought about any of those things and was a lot more carefree. And I'm still learning. Just last night we had a conversation about a new window we're putting in. I'm worried about fire hazards, sunlight, and efficiency... and he's worried about someone breaking in. For instance I don't like the typical heavy wooden horizontal blinds...
"Can't we use curtains instead?"
"But they can break the window and get in!"
"No, not with the bars on the windows." (which I'm not a fan of, either.)
"But they can shoot in."
"Wood isn't going to stop a bullet!"
"Well they can see in and aim... with the blinds it makes it harder."
I give in.
Who has conversations like these?
Granted my husband seems overly paranoid, but we've never been victims even living out in a somewhat rough part provincia. :Knock on wood!: I suppose I should thank the security cameras, the dogs, the barbed wire, and the 10 foot hedge and iron gate for that. (His argument was further supported by the 2 min of sustained gunfire we heard last night.)
Crime doesn't seem so bad sometimes, but look how we need to live. Even in Palermo chances are you have porteros and security guards, perhaps even cameras - out of necessity, not luxury.