Sunnydogday
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I'm sort of new, I signed up and read on this forum awhle back, and saved it as a possible source of info. People living in a place know more about it and can maybe answer questions the best way.
My son is currently living there, he left the USA 3 years ago and went to B.A and married a woman he had fallen in love with and gotten to know, online (he had gone there to visit the year before, so knew her in person, too) At one time the spouse of an American citizen could come back to the USA, but not now. That is currently being straightened out (her paperwork, she is a Bulgarian citizen with permanent residency in Argentina, and had something missing on her birth certificate, it's been so long since she left Bulgaria. They have found a lawyer in the USA who feels this can be resolved) The problem now, when his wife can get her Visa or passport is money. He gets social security from the USA (via debit card) but this is enough for them to live on (and making payments to the lawyer) but there is costs for paperwork, and plane fare, which is the biggest expense and deposit on apartment when they get there. they want to move to Phoenix AZ where he lived at one time and feel is good (weather, and a lot of spanish speaking. His wife also wants to get a job and speaks 5 languages, so that might be a plus, there). Over the last week, we (his family) have tried to set up a fund raisiing website people can donate to, to help with all the costs of helping them come back to the USA.
This seemed simple, people set up fund raising pages to collect money for a vacation or to buy a new car! (though I don't know how much is donated) There are "fund me" type sites one can set up. We tried several of these, which for various reasons didn't work, weren't easy to use, one of them wanted $12 of the $17 collected when we tried ot cancel it and take it out. Paypal has one that is also confusing, but seems to require a USA paypal account for it to go into. They also take out fees (of course) Last night we decided to just use his PayPal address, he has an "international" one (with Bank of America in the USA) which seemed simplier and easier. I tried to donate to try it and PayPal said they can't transfer funds to Argentina at this time. I googled it and apparently it has to do with American money being illegal there? Even though it would be going into an American bank. My son was going to call the bank (and maybe Paypal) today to see what he could find out. There's Western Union I think that might work? but, seems like they charge $27 fee to send $100. Aside from getting donations to help with their plane fare, etc, what if his family (in the USA) wanted to send money just to help? Maybe if I tried paypal and used the drop down menu to check Argentine funds instead of USD? Right now I'm waiting to hear if he finds something out, he is getting very frustrated and discouraged about this. His family (me and his siblings) doesn't have extra money, like to help in a big way. If we did, we could buy the plane tickets (once her paperwork gets fixed) and wire or send money to him at his destination in the USA. He has friends all over (due to facebook) and some have said they will donate money, or send him some to help. If there is a way to do this. Someone in the USA could collect money for them, but then still have to find a way to get it TO them. They could use some of it now, before the trip, like for the legal fees and paperwork, faxing, etc.
Just writing this, thinking maybe someone will read it and see something we are missing. Maybe he will find something out today from the bank and/or paypal. We were writing about this on facebook, and I had the idea maybe someone had frequent flyer miles or points they get using certain credit cards they weren't going to use and could donate. I looked this up and there are charities people can do this to, but nothing that fits their situation.
This didn't seem as complicated when we first got the idea of helping bring them "home" to the USA.
Thanks for reading this...
My son is currently living there, he left the USA 3 years ago and went to B.A and married a woman he had fallen in love with and gotten to know, online (he had gone there to visit the year before, so knew her in person, too) At one time the spouse of an American citizen could come back to the USA, but not now. That is currently being straightened out (her paperwork, she is a Bulgarian citizen with permanent residency in Argentina, and had something missing on her birth certificate, it's been so long since she left Bulgaria. They have found a lawyer in the USA who feels this can be resolved) The problem now, when his wife can get her Visa or passport is money. He gets social security from the USA (via debit card) but this is enough for them to live on (and making payments to the lawyer) but there is costs for paperwork, and plane fare, which is the biggest expense and deposit on apartment when they get there. they want to move to Phoenix AZ where he lived at one time and feel is good (weather, and a lot of spanish speaking. His wife also wants to get a job and speaks 5 languages, so that might be a plus, there). Over the last week, we (his family) have tried to set up a fund raisiing website people can donate to, to help with all the costs of helping them come back to the USA.
This seemed simple, people set up fund raising pages to collect money for a vacation or to buy a new car! (though I don't know how much is donated) There are "fund me" type sites one can set up. We tried several of these, which for various reasons didn't work, weren't easy to use, one of them wanted $12 of the $17 collected when we tried ot cancel it and take it out. Paypal has one that is also confusing, but seems to require a USA paypal account for it to go into. They also take out fees (of course) Last night we decided to just use his PayPal address, he has an "international" one (with Bank of America in the USA) which seemed simplier and easier. I tried to donate to try it and PayPal said they can't transfer funds to Argentina at this time. I googled it and apparently it has to do with American money being illegal there? Even though it would be going into an American bank. My son was going to call the bank (and maybe Paypal) today to see what he could find out. There's Western Union I think that might work? but, seems like they charge $27 fee to send $100. Aside from getting donations to help with their plane fare, etc, what if his family (in the USA) wanted to send money just to help? Maybe if I tried paypal and used the drop down menu to check Argentine funds instead of USD? Right now I'm waiting to hear if he finds something out, he is getting very frustrated and discouraged about this. His family (me and his siblings) doesn't have extra money, like to help in a big way. If we did, we could buy the plane tickets (once her paperwork gets fixed) and wire or send money to him at his destination in the USA. He has friends all over (due to facebook) and some have said they will donate money, or send him some to help. If there is a way to do this. Someone in the USA could collect money for them, but then still have to find a way to get it TO them. They could use some of it now, before the trip, like for the legal fees and paperwork, faxing, etc.
Just writing this, thinking maybe someone will read it and see something we are missing. Maybe he will find something out today from the bank and/or paypal. We were writing about this on facebook, and I had the idea maybe someone had frequent flyer miles or points they get using certain credit cards they weren't going to use and could donate. I looked this up and there are charities people can do this to, but nothing that fits their situation.
This didn't seem as complicated when we first got the idea of helping bring them "home" to the USA.
Thanks for reading this...