mmoon
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I agree wholeheartedly with citygirl above. I will respond to Steve's response to her comments...
1. I am sure what citygirl means is not that abortion doesn't ultimately prevent birth. However, the idea that women often get abortions because they just couldn't bother to use birth control and figured they would just get an abortion is offensive. Men and women make mistakes, birth control fails, people drink too much, there is violence against women...and women get pregnant and have to deal with the consequences. I cannot understand why anyone thinks an unwanted CHILD should be a consequence/punishment for any of the above. What we need in this world is not simply more children, but more wanted children. And I speak as a mom who loves being a mom.
2. I don't even know what that means. And it assumes that all abortions come as a result of unprotected sex. Again, if someone has unprotected sex (whether willingly or unwillingly), does it truly seem like a desired result that that woman should be forced to have a child? What if they can prove they used protection and it failed? Then does a woman have control over her own body? Are you interested in adopting one or more of these unwanted children? It's not like we have enough adoptive or foster parents for children who are given up.
3. Sigh.
4. Finally, reality. The truth is that wealthy women in Argentina have and will always have abortions and access to safe services inside and outside of the country. It's the poor women who bear the burden of the attitude that abortion is the "easy" way out. Put yourself in a pregnant, poor woman's shoes and ask yourself what that must be like.
I have to add that if it seems that public funding for abortions will somehow be more expensive than the long-term cost of supporting unwanted children, that is incorrect.
Some of the clearest signs of an evolved society are that they support women's education, promote women in leadership and protect the rights that women have over their reproduction. Whether you believe in abortion or not personally (and I've known a few people who weren't pro-choice until they suddenly were pregnant or had a partner who was pregnant), it must be a choice.
1. I am sure what citygirl means is not that abortion doesn't ultimately prevent birth. However, the idea that women often get abortions because they just couldn't bother to use birth control and figured they would just get an abortion is offensive. Men and women make mistakes, birth control fails, people drink too much, there is violence against women...and women get pregnant and have to deal with the consequences. I cannot understand why anyone thinks an unwanted CHILD should be a consequence/punishment for any of the above. What we need in this world is not simply more children, but more wanted children. And I speak as a mom who loves being a mom.
2. I don't even know what that means. And it assumes that all abortions come as a result of unprotected sex. Again, if someone has unprotected sex (whether willingly or unwillingly), does it truly seem like a desired result that that woman should be forced to have a child? What if they can prove they used protection and it failed? Then does a woman have control over her own body? Are you interested in adopting one or more of these unwanted children? It's not like we have enough adoptive or foster parents for children who are given up.
3. Sigh.
4. Finally, reality. The truth is that wealthy women in Argentina have and will always have abortions and access to safe services inside and outside of the country. It's the poor women who bear the burden of the attitude that abortion is the "easy" way out. Put yourself in a pregnant, poor woman's shoes and ask yourself what that must be like.
I have to add that if it seems that public funding for abortions will somehow be more expensive than the long-term cost of supporting unwanted children, that is incorrect.
Some of the clearest signs of an evolved society are that they support women's education, promote women in leadership and protect the rights that women have over their reproduction. Whether you believe in abortion or not personally (and I've known a few people who weren't pro-choice until they suddenly were pregnant or had a partner who was pregnant), it must be a choice.