I have another doubt which I don't feel merits its own thread, so apologies for piggybacking on this one. When you travel with your (foreign) spouse, and you go through passport control upon arrival, do you accompany them in the "visitor" line or do you go separate ways?
We had the issue that we were separated in passport control in Miami (luckily we both filled out the customs declaration forms in case that should happen.) I tried to tell the lady at the entrance we were married and if I could accompany him in the visitor line, but she didn't even listen - I was sent to CItizens and he to Visitors.
However after we met up and passed through customs together, we were scolded that we only needed 1 customs declaration form since we are 1 family.
I tried to explain that we filled out our own because they separated us in the passport control line and they sometimes check for the document.
I don't know what the big deal is, but he was somewhat rude about the whole thing.
This is Miami so the chances of running into an incompetent a--hole are rather great, but I would like to know how others handle it.