I wonder why mainly guys replied to this thread? And made me hesitated should I reply to this?
The longer I stay in Argentina, the less faith I have in relationship.
Few of my students have mentioned they go to swingers club regularly and they feel better cause "now they are even with their husbands". One of my students actually works in a strip club, sometimes her boyfriend will go to strip club and watch her strip on other guys til naked.
One of my girlfriends kept telling me that: "You know, why only guys can fuck around, we girls should do too!!!" Then she complained to me "why guys only want sex? Where the hell is true love?"
I'm just speechless.
My own bloody experience: I dated an Argie for one and half years. He cheated on me with a married woman and one of his student. He never apologized cause he said this is something he has to do and overcome his weakness bla bla bla. ya ya ya whatever philosopher. (he came to destroy my apartment when I went to Uruguay. he even soaked all my dollars in cooking oil. You say argie girls are crazy?hmm)
They abuse the freedom and space in a relationship. and they don't have no idea what respect is.
anyway it's take two to tango. As long as they are happy.
I wash my hands of it.