I thought it was a very reasonable question - how do you know the details of this?
And then the OP got very defensive. Now I'm doubly suspicious.
GS_Dirtboy, you are one of the better posters on this forum. Read about your love story the other day and really felt motivated.
I did not get defensive. I just got very irritated with the allegation. Aren't we all on this forum to share our experiences and this amalgamation of everyone experiences here, is what makes this forum as a excellent source of info. as it is. Has one of the many "mad dogs" running all over CF, come and bitten me that i will make up a story and then write it here. Don't I have better things to do in life?
The reason for sharing it was to let other expats know, what lies ahead for us. Now, their is no 'agenda' when I say that. It means, exactly, what i say.