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SaraSara said:Tea-party nuts aside, the US is more open to newcomers.
Americans move around a lot, and are used to making new friends whenever they move. They join clubs, get involved in community projects, PTAs, etcetera, and are more open towards new people.
Argentines are much more likely to stay put, in the same city, often in the same neighborhood, and even in the same house, passed from one generation to the next. They have large families, dozens of cousins, and dozens of old friends going back to elementary school. So, their social lives are full and they are not too interested in making new friends. A pity, in my opinion, but that's what I see all around.
Where in the U.S. have you lived, SaraSara? Have you ever been out of a major city? I grew up in rural Missouri, as most Missourians do. Kansas City and St. Louis are our only "major cities," with a combined total pop. of perhaps 1.5 million people. The state has about 5 million inhabitants.
Missouri is not pro-immigrant. The public voted 86% in favor of an amendment in 2008 banning the use of any other language (*cough*Spanish*cough*) than English in official public meetings. Approximately 30 other states have similar laws. (Source) If the United States were so accepting of newcomers, we'd probably not be banning the use of "foreign" languages in public meetings. We'd also probably have immigration reform by now.
Most don't have a problem with people coming as tourists. But if you're not from here and you do not speak the standard English accent (y'all, over-yonder, have a good'n!), I wish you luck. It's hard enough for someone from another town to fit in -- heck, I didn't even fit in! I can't imagine what it would be like for someone from another country.
Many families here stay put as well. Mine have been in the same area since they started keeping track of that stuff. I am an anomaly, but my sister still has the same friends since elementary school and still lives in the same town we grew up in. Many of the folks who I graduated HS with still live in my hometown or have returned since graduating from university.
I guess my United States is much more different than yours.
ETA: Arizona is much more of an immigrant paradise than MO.
"The legislation would make it a state crime to be in the U.S. illegally. Police will also be able to ask anyone to prove their legal status and demand to see a driver's license or state ID whenever the officer felt "reasonable suspicion exists." Without proper documents, immigrants can be jailed, fined or deported." ~ SOURCE
Why, yes, we love foreigners!! Show us yer papers!