Blackhand, maybe you have lived in a bubble, but we are living in tough economic times globally where even people who were once CEOs of companies are jobless, let alone someone in their late 30s with a doctorate.
I was never one to have credit cards, as when I lived abroad I always had a good income and was a cash buyer, and now I cannot get one because I do not live in either the US or Europe nor have income in either of these 2 places where I would be eligible for one.
It is not always as easy as people think it is.
Also-FYI regarding your $400 fare notion, all airlines charge the FULL fare on one-way tickets, so often times it is cheaper to buy round trips even if you dont plan to use the return leg. And the only fares for $400 I have seen are to Lima or Bogota.
Also FYI, part of the reason I posted this was not so much as to get help on how to leave (which is appreciated) but I kind of expected people to paint another picture for me of BA with hopes of perhaps seeing it in another light, however I am assuming that many expats may be able to relate to my situation which is why they are quick to offer help on how I can get out rather than console me into giving it another chance (which again, much appreciated)
Me too. I'm calling bullshit on the OP's thread. No way in hell any American / European with a Doctorate doesn't have access to $ 400 usd for a one way ticket back to the US. Seriously ?