Is It Possible To Find Love In Argentina?

[garryl]

Garryl, by citing "men lead a longer life..." Do you mean men as in "humans"? Or literally men? Did this research study women as well? Please cite your souce. I taught psychology and sociology at the college level and never heard of this. The only research that I'm aware of is that which talks about morbidity and relationships which found that committed partners who lost their significant other were much more likely to die within a year of their partners passing when compared to their still together peers. An argument for being in a loving, committed relationship.

Falling in love makes you feel like a new person, it gives you a purpose to live. Without love, it's tough.

 

[Alicia karr]

And we need to love and accept ourselves first....then we can be in a relationship of love with someone else...not just in lust based or dependency based ones.
Thanks for your citing your sources...I'll trash the e harmony junk. Totally exploitation of data to market their service!
The other articles are references to other more respected studies. Basically they are saying that emotional/romantic STRESS negatively impacts the human organism by suppressing the immune system. A loving kind environment facilitates optimum functioning of our immune system (minimal stress in your psycho-social sphere). Conflict and lack of support system have been proven to adversely affect our physical health. But please don't mistake these things to be saying that to be "in lust" with someone boosts ones immune system and OVERALL health...thatt doesn't provide permanency (security), the timeline can be much shorter, and it doesn't cultivate the nurturing beneficial support systems of extended familial and long term relationships.!it might get your hormones going a bit tho!

 

[nlaruccia]

here is my source http://www.womansday...-of-love-115600

http://www.medicinen...rticlekey=97679

http://www.match.com...D=9668����sorry, one of them is from match.com. I mean both men and women will live a longer life if they are in love. But quite often love fades away, it becomes daily boring life. You need to discover/create new love with the same person, or you need to find a new lover. The later seems to be easy for many. What I am trying to say is that if you can't love the same person forever, at least try to fall in love with different ones, which should be blamed, after all we are humans, just evolved from moneys 10000 years ago.

Match.com and Woman's Day are reliable sources? Just curious.

 

[nlaruccia]

here is my source http://www.womansday...-of-love-115600

http://www.medicinen...rticlekey=97679

http://www.match.com...D=9668����sorry, one of them is from match.com. I mean both men and women will live a longer life if they are in love. But quite often love fades away, it becomes daily boring life. You need to discover/create new love with the same person, or you need to find a new lover. The later seems to be easy for many. What I am trying to say is that if you can't love the same person forever, at least try to fall in love with different ones, which should be blamed, after all we are humans, just evolved from moneys 10000 years ago.

Match.com and Woman's Day are reliable sources? Just curious.

 

[garryl]

Match.com and Woman's Day are reliable sources? Just curious.

they are not, but I'd rather believe it and I feel it's true. go with your heart.

 

[pauper]

But you will never find love, love will find you, wherever you are

'cause true love is searching too
But how can it recognize you
Unless you step out into the light?

 

[dennisr]

You can take intellect, wisdom, maturity and stick it where the sun does not shine when it comes to matters of the heart

"You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear."

Oscar Wilde

 

[citygirl]

Of course it is. You may have a few dating disasters here but that can happen anywhere. And there are plenty of good people here. I found a great guy and we have two little ones running around now.

You do need to be aware that dating someone from another country does bring some challenges, you don't have the same "cultural shorthand" so to speak, so it requires really good communication to avoid misunderstandings. Another thing to think about is that if you do get involved in a serious relationship with someone from here you may be giving up on a life in your home country.

 

[florence]

I met the love of my life in a milonga. We are both older. He was retired and I was approaching that age. He is Argentinean and a wonderful person, but I think a critical factor is that we were both very content with our lives before we met. All those years I spent looking and hoping for a good man, I think I scared them off by sending out vibes of being needy. When I decided that my life was great without one and completely stopped looking for any relationship longer than a 12-minute tanda, he came along, and we have been together for six years.

 

[SoloEso]

Love or romance Valentina? Romance seldom has anything to do with love....as you may eventually discover. Enjoy the journey.