2. that you wrote "so not sure who your comment is thrown at." - why would you think it was at you?
ahh, only because you wrote it in reply to my comment. So MR BAexpat debater just an FYI experienced forum posters don't write a reply to someone and then claim it was in fact NOT a reply directed at that the person replied to. That is nonsensical garbage.
I suggest you take your own cheap advice and stick that rationale where the sun don't shine.