mariefer said:Why would you prefer to deal with an impossible work visa or pay tons in tuition instead of marring the poor girl who is willing to follow you? Just get a divorce if things don't work out!
Wow I take it you've never been divorced, nor known anyone who got a divorced? It's a serious legal business to get a divorce -- especially when you're talking about people from different countries, and a right pain in the butt. In Argentina you can't even get the divorce until you've been separated officially for I believe 2 years.
My sister married the wrong guy a few years ago. He was South African, she's Canadian. She married him in SA, 5 days after the ceremony she had to go back to Canada for work. Over the following months (fortunately while he was still in South Africa) it became evident the relationship was not going to work -- she filed for divorce 6 mos after the marriage. Even though it could be argued it was only a 5 day marriage it cost her thousands of dollars in legal fees and 2.5 years before the divorce papers finally came through. They didn't even have kids or finances in common, so I can't imagine the headaches that would have been involved if he had actually been living under her roof -- she would have ended up paying alimony for years and years.
Sorry but anyone that has the attitude "oh you can just get a divorce" should probably never marry -- unless you want a mountain of trouble after. Prenups aren't recognised in Argentina by the way, you marry someone, say goodbye to 50% if it doesn't work out.