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1. It's relatively safe (shit happens, but not excessively)
2. In general and with the right attitude the Argentine people are friendly and 'befriendable'
3. Having a good income makes a major difference
4. It offers many kids-friendly facilities (altough the city itself is a bit noisy and stinky)
5. The direct (natural) surroundings are a bit boring > I'll post another topic about that one
6. But also: it's not a great, great city... I feel more 'like' than 'love'.
1. Definitely one of the safest big cities in Latin America, although over time I got paranoid. I was recently in Bogotá, and the streets are deserted after dark. There are tons of bums, and they are all cracked out on the cheap, cheap drugs that are everywhere. Metal detectors and pat downs to get into bars and even sometimes supermarkets. After experiencing that I think I could go back to BA and feel much safer than I did before moving away.
2. In the end I did not find porteños warm or particularly friendly, but that is something you would have to decide for yourself. I came from a very open, international and friendly city, so I did not like it (then again I was dealing mostly with young 20-somethings who for some reason are awfully competitive). People from colder places not known for being friendly tend to love Buenos Aires in comparison. The way people treat their inner circle of relatives and lifelong friends is not how they will treat a new friend. Be patient, and don't think it will be anything like other countries in Latin America, if you've been. With that said, people with kids seem to have it a bit easier what with the play dates and schools and all.
3. YES. Despite the free education and blah blah blah, the third world is not a fun place to be broke. Period. However, there are lots of cool free cultural activities around the city. That helps.
4. Kids are allowed pretty much everywhere at all hours. I hated this, but as a parent you will love it.
5. Unless you want to sit with your kids on a bus for 20 hours to get to, say, Salta, it's nice to have the cash to be able to fly to the big destinations, none of which are close to BA. Argentina is a great country to travel around. Absolutely beautiful.
6. Again, this is something you will have to decide for yourself. Once you get past the smoke and mirrors--yummy ice cream! Pretty architecture!--that's when real life begins, and that's when you decide if you like it as a place to LIVE, not visit. Four years is a long time, but at least you know you have an end date if things get rough.
I didn't like it in the end, but I wouldn't change a thing. I know I'll be back to visit one day. Gotta hit up Patagonia when I'm retired!
Best of luck with whatever you decide. It would be the adventure of a lifetime, that's for sure.