I agree wholeheartedly. I love tango dance, but the milongas are seedy. And as for the "Kiss and Tell' book. It's just another self-help/finding yourself book about some middle aged unsatisfied woman who is bored with herself and must go to a second or third world country to "find herself" and become a philosopher/guru. Heck, maybe for her one night stands and "cafecitos' are equivalent to fleeting love. Whatever floats your boat.I've been involved socially and professionally in the tango scene here for years. It is the last place in the world to look for love. Sex, yes, something extra, yes.un cafecito? Yes. Love? Don't think so. Most men and many women that go to the milongas are already in committed relationships. They might take off their rings. They may not enter or leave together. But they are together with someone. That person may or may not know their sig.other is at a milonga. They may even be there as well.sitting with the other singles..But it is all just a big, sensuous tease. If you're looking for something extra, or sex,yes you can maybe find it there. And once in a blue moon someone might meet someone. But I think you'd find better statistics using Internet dating, which personally I've never had success with either.The only love I find at the milongas is in the sad tango lyrics that they play.