Seems a lot of people on this forum (or is it web forums in general?) like to hurl insults at others very easily.
With the information available, it could very well be that the OP finds it difficult in general to meet/get to know people. That is not an uncommon situation, and one which I have personal experience of. Hence the questions asked about that are perfectly valid.
So rather than insulting someone with a different potential take on a situation than you due perhaps to their own personal history, why not simply offer your own advice from your own point of view/experience? The rest of your post was constructive.
