The partisanship of these debates makes me sick to my stomach. The death of democracy is written in the vitriol and misrepresentation of political fanatics who prefer winning an argument to solving the problem...I'll now withdraw and let the Republicans versus the Democrats continue the futile argument.
Ok, had to write a little more
First, the partisanship you are seeing is directly related to a two-party system and not necessarily to democracy itself. (in my opinion). If the US had a parliamentary system, I think things would be less divided.
Another reason there is so much partisanship NOW in particular is that both of the two parties in the States are trying to do things that are actually quite big changes in one gulp.
Bush led us into a huge lessening of freedoms, backed mostly by Republicans, early in his administration by using the horror of 9/11/2001 to grab a bunch of governmental powers and continue to use that, a war in Afghanistan and other lies to invade Iraq and deal with something his father maybe should have dealt with ten years before, or should have dealt with during his time in the CIA by not creating Hussein to begin with.
Obama leads us into more socialistic tendencies than either the people are ready for, or will ever want, and using a lot of the same "us or them" tactics to get what he wants.
The difference between what Obama and Bush did is that Bush had the nation behind him for awhile after the 9/11 attacks and Obama doesn't. He only has his die-hard supporters now, but from the beginning he was making friendly statements (openness, transparency, working with everyone, etc) while doing quite the opposite in actions, like forcing through Obama care to begin with, the way he did it and the complete lack of compromise he shows just like he accuses the other side of doing.
"Us against them." Our leaders are doing it to us, pulling the strings, and everyone is jumping without thinking things all the way through, while spouting back the same things their chosen leader says. The "leaders" are taking advantage of people's beliefs and leading them down the aisle of their mutual idealistic religion and making sure they sit on one side or the other, never mixing. Then they each get up on their pulpit and preach their own fire and brimstone while one side laughs and the other cheers, at turns alternating.
It's ridiculous and one of the best reasons I can see to be living in Argentina right now. As screwed up as Argentina is, they are inefficient and pretty much only affect themselves and their region, a limited number of souls.
I don't think there are any good places in the world to be if your eyes are open and you're not rich and limited in where you can work, but there are lesser evils if you have some luck and the balls to do it.
Fifs, it makes me sick too
But I'm neither Republican nor Democrat, and in fact never in my life have ever registered with any party or voted a party line. There is some good and bad in that last, but I vote for the person, never the party. I was once a Proud American (though never obnoxious about it!), hell I wanted to be a naval aviator but I get hit by a hockey stick when I was sixteen and scared my eyeball a little bit and I couldn't fly. But as I got older and moved from laborer (from digging ditches, driving a truck, changing oil in a pit underneath cars all day), to designer/draftsman, to job site superintendent erecting large buildings, to a programmer, to a manager of software development, to a business owner who had some means, to losing his business working on rebuilding it, through being married young and stupid and having kids and living a near-hellish life with a woman who was an example of evil incarnate itself, to meeting the love of my life and living in a foreign country where a lot of the above happened as well, and above all, having extremely little help along the way, nothing much more than support from friends and family at times but in the great majority having to do it all myself, I've come to a conclusion:
We are each individually responsible for our own actions and individually and collectively for actions of those who act in our name, and responsible for how we react to the actions of others upon ourselves individually and collectively.
We should all live with maybe the most important item of the Hippocratic Oath: First do no harm.
To me, that means not wrecking something that's already wrecked by putting something worse and less-thought-out on top of it because it affects a lot of people, but if it happens fight the matter itself before it does more harm. Find and punish the individuals that are behind a mass murder, but don't use that as a pretext to invade other countries and lessen the already diminishing civil liberties of a large portion of the population of your own country and the rest of the world and make life even more a living hell for countless millions around the world in the name of "freedom."
We're all screwed up and we're all trying to spread the memes that have spread to us and taken hold, and I think mine are important so I have to keep pushing them. Peacefully and with logic and mild argument.