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Its not that I think its the perfect way to get a job, look, I trully believe in meritocracy, I know an uncle of mine who lives in Mexico, and his wife, and the family of his wife, they are all scientific people, successfull scientific people, people who worked hard to have a very more than decent life. They gain thousands of dollars/month each other, they have a fancy house, nice cars, eat outside 95% of the times...
I know positively these people deserve what they have, because they studied, worked, etc. I know this is (by far) the best way to get things in this world.
The problem is that this way of getting stuff, this recognition, this prestige, this being someone in the scienttific community, this respect, etc, is just 1% of the way things are done in the world today. Its not the common way, its not the way that world works today, and while it is fair, it is rare.
I never felt capable of developing like these people myself. Also, when I started to get immerse in the job market, was the worst years to do, from 2001 to 2005. And then there were other issues, personal stuff, lots of things. I wish I had had a father, or a god father, or a friend who could help me, I wish I had opportunities. Even in the ministrys, while 'in the papers' you need exams and all that to get a public post, in reality that doesnt happen, that its just not true.
Thats why I wish I had someone who said to me "this is your work now". Not because its the best way, or even a good way, or a fair way, just because is the way people get work today everywhere, not only in Argentina. Yes, my uncle is an exception, there are very few people who get that far like that, when you have competition, and in every market you have that, when you have one who wins the spot, then you have lots of people who loose. And the losers, they are also capable, intelligent, well prepared, etc. Its just the way it works.
Find something you like to do and have a talent for strive to become the best at it and keeping doing that until you are one of the best at even if takes 20 years. It will most likely eventually pay off. I went through more struggles and pit falls and failures than I ever imagined possible. Lost everything only 12 years ago I mean penniless but I got right back up and continued on. But that down fall was actually led to the life style I have now which I very much enjoy. It is not just earning money and having things, it is doing what I love to do and what I am inspired to do at my own pace on my own terms.
Not sayying this is the only way but it worked well for me in the long run.