I have had more fun with my son and nephew. We all know most men go for looks--period! But they detest women looking for money. They would rant on with indignation when some young gal married an older man with money and say, "She only married him for his money!". I'd say, "Well what's wrong with that?" That would get their immediate attention! "You guys are looking for good looking women. She's looking for money. They both got what they wanted. Sounds like a win-win to me!"
Them (indignantly): Oh no! It is NOT the same. Me: Why not? I could pick a fight any day of the week on that one.
Nikad, I'm with you. I never cared that much about a man's looks (or money for that matter). I want them to care about their appearance of course but not important aside from that. What has always impressed me is an honest, caring guy who has character.