gpop
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Argentina seems to have a 'give and take' when it comes to quality of life. I couldn't even quantify the split in percentages because some things really depend on the audience. To me it's like having kids, they test your metal from the beginning, but you made the decision to have them so you ride it out... but unlike my child, I don't love it here, and at times I've been pushed too far and curse the day I stepped off the airplane. Other times I think positive in how I intend to take on a future here (but it's not going to be in BA or other large Argentine city, that's for sure)... most times I'm indifferent because in the back of my mind, if it's not one thing, it's another... elsewhere, so what's the point in lamenting over it.
I miss what was, but now I'm different; returning to expect what-once-was could never happen. In the meantime, I have far too much shit to contend with to even weigh the difference between here and there.
The one thing that I didn't do was to be absorbed by that "this is Argentina so be Argentine" mentality. I do as I see fit and avoid that whole aspect of melting into this culture. I don't watch futbol or drink mate just because it's the thing to do here... I pay taxes and suffer the usual BS, so I feel entitled to have it my way in my home at least.
I miss what was, but now I'm different; returning to expect what-once-was could never happen. In the meantime, I have far too much shit to contend with to even weigh the difference between here and there.
The one thing that I didn't do was to be absorbed by that "this is Argentina so be Argentine" mentality. I do as I see fit and avoid that whole aspect of melting into this culture. I don't watch futbol or drink mate just because it's the thing to do here... I pay taxes and suffer the usual BS, so I feel entitled to have it my way in my home at least.