Hello LuckyLucy, Funcheat, ladies all,I know that this is a ladies' thread and that a man may well not be welcome here. Having said that, I would like to comment on this. As a gentleman, I will do everything within my power to refrain from being offensive, although I am afraid I will not succeed. In my own personal opinion, a woman who sets her eyes on a man who is in a serious commitment with a pregnant woman, and makes it "her goal to get him", is by definition not a lady. And any man who not only welcomes such behaviour, but is also prepared to leave a pregnant woman to her own devices, in order to pursue another woman is again, by definition, not a gentleman. A lady would walk away from an involved man, immediately. And a gentleman would gracefully decline any distractions from previously acquired commitments. That's what I would do, anyway.
Then Funcheat, available men are not necessarily hard to find, nor losers, nor are all the taken ones good catches, I can assure you. Maybe the problem is that good catches are hard to catch, for you. If you ask me, I wouldn't go near a woman who is obviously desperate to get me. Who knows where she's been! lol
I hope I've added to the confusion.CheersErnie