Even i believe that you got what you deserve, i m going to enlight you on how can you and your partner easily finish in jail.
A) it is a common maneuver among real state criminals to make a fake statement at the criminal Court for "persuasión" or amenazas agravadas por el uso de armas o en banda, a crime where jail during the investigation is mandatory.
On the interrogatory before the criminal judge you are going to say: "i didn t do it, it all a lie of this b..ch who owe my xxxx pesos" and the judge is going to considered proved the crime and you can spend 8 years at a federal facility. 4 for being accurate, you can apply for deportación after half of the sentence.
If this happends, forget about your citizenship.
B,) You mentioned something about adopción. I guess that this real State agent knows about that, and she knows you had no DNI 6 months ago. In that case she also knows how slow is an adopción legal procedure at Court since you have DNI. So, she might think you have under illegal custody a child that she might think, as me, that it might be a crime.
Probably your partner, the one who plays to be a lawyer, didn t advice you about that neither.
To fire your lawyer when he practically won your case as a maneuver for do not paying his fee is the best recipe for lacking proper legal advice when you need it, that s why you made so many stupid mistakes that put you in a position where you can only loose.
As i said before, you got what you deserve. But do not be stupid enough to get more than what you deserve,
lol All I know is I am so stressed out about moving again in three weeks with all our stuff that I probably need to sit down and watch something like Spartacus to relax (I've downloaded all three seasons from memory - good relaxing blood and guts stuff 
