You sound like such an American.
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Bradly, absolutely hahaha, but I'm actually very multicultural. I was born in Venezuela to a European heritage, raised in the US since 5, and my parents live in Finland - rest of my family lives in Europe or Venezuela and some in the US. I've lived in Spain and spent summers in Scandinavia. I don't consider myself as having a home so moving to a random place is less difficult for me than for someone who has everything all in one place.
Kalitrillia, thanks for the reality check. I've frankly gotten really caught up in my career. I work a ton, and I'm the youngest by far in my office, so I came alone to no real "peers"- so it has been extremely hard to meet people my age. I'm thinking of enrolling in extension courses in the university to meet people also it would help my resume look better for the job change. But yes, it is the little things. The fact that I wake up, and I'm happy to be here, and walk to the subte (and just hating the subte and all the discomfort is so wonderful as opposed to all the dull driving in pristine Stepford Wives suburbian North Carolina) passing all these plazas, to get to work and I smile when I pass plaza san martin, because it's so impressive... those little things. I love it. Get the heck out of Palermo...hahha ...yeaah. will do. It's just so damn great.
Have you thought about the adaptation process once you move back to the States after having lived here? Will a company there care if you have experience in Argentina? Will it help or hurt you career long-term having left and returned to the U.S.?
Have no
intention (then again, you never know) of going back to the US, to be honest - If I move from here it will be to Spain, because it's the only other place I actually want to live, or to Finland to do my masters. I'm a "grass is always greener" kind of guy who can't sit still, but somehow this is the first place I've ever lived where I wasn't in a hurry to get the heck out, I genuinely want to stay. When I think of "going back", it's in a
"I give up/easy way out" sense. It's all easier there. Here, everything is so difficult sometimes. However, I do think about the repercussions of my being here, and I think they are positive. At the beginning, the questions I asked myself were: "if it doesn't work out, will I have a viable way out?", "will this make my resume stronger?", "will it build valuable life experience? (as opposed to just wasting my time just for the fun)" - and these were the basic requirements. I think it has been overall a good life decision. I have a good job that I can build upon. That's key. It had to be a responsible choice.
However, I'm scared to send a resume out here - they always ask about salary expectations for some reason, and I don't want to be counted out from the get-go for putting a too-large amount. But gosh darn it, I want to stay.
Money is a lubricant to happiness, it makes it more possible, but it's not everything. Enjoying the little things here, that's everything to me now.
And you guys are a really helpful group, appreciate it very much, really.