Argentine women are the only thing I really don't like in Argentina.

[SecretShopper]

Well, perhaps they do not like to feel or to be treated like escorts. Colombians, Venezuelans and Brazilians women are the nowadays nationality of escorts here. My father used ro say that you do not look for a bride at a Cabaret.

What?? I don't think you really understood anything that was said. There is literally nothing that I said that would make anyone think, except you, that I was trying to treat the women here like escorts.

 

[bdk1]

Well there is no real definition of the word for me. I don't actually have a real goal. I never actually know what I want from a person until I'm around them a certain amount of time. I'm not out looking for a relationship and I not out looking for one night stands. I am just out and enjoying myself. And if I come across someone and in that moment we enjoyed ourselves and I say to myself "there's potential in getting to know that person," then I take it from there.

Ah, this is why I'll be forever thankful to God that us gay men were blessed with Grindr, so we don't ever have to worry about what kind of "date" people are looking for (Tinder = romantic date; Grindr = sex date). You'll find the exact same people on both apps, but the same person will block you on Tinder if you dare mention something remotely sexual, and then proceed to send you a dick pick on Grindr before they say "hello."

 

[toongeorges]

I think you're really overcomplicating this. I'm not going to put a plan together to figure out how to date Argentine women. And I'm not going to change how I am. This is why I keep using the word "mismatch." I'm not going to change and neither are the women here. Therefore, we are simply not a match. Which means it makes more sense to focus on other women.

People who don't change and adapt and expect the world to come to them the way they see fit, keep banging their head against the wall. You sound as if you have been spoiled as a kid and never grew up. Either adapt and learn to appreciate the way things are or learn to acknowledge that you are the cause of your disappointments and not the people around you.

 

[SecretShopper]

People who don't change and adapt and expect the world to come to them the way they see fit, keep banging their head against the wall. You sound as if you have been spoiled as a kid and never grew up. Either adapt and learn to appreciate the way things are or learn to acknowledge that you are the cause of your disappointments and not the people around you.

It's pretty amazing how I can spell something out clear as day and people still not understand. I DO NOT expect Argentine women to change in order to accommodate me. Nor am I willing to change to accommodate them. If I personally find a habit inconsiderate, why would I just one day decide to accept it. I am not banging my head against the wall hoping for them to change. 100 percent of the women in this country are not Argentine. I will not be put in jail for not dating an Argentine woman, nor will people throw rocks at me for not dating an Argentine women. If you had a choice between dating someone who's customs are more of a match, and someone who is a complete mismatch, why the shit would you choose the mismatch? This is also not a hate thread on Argentine women. I said from the beginning that according to how I am, Argentine women, or at least porteñas, are the worst match.

Is that clear enough?

 

[toongeorges]

It's pretty amazing how I can spell something out clear as day and people still not understand. I DO NOT expect Argentine women to change in order to accommodate me. Nor am I willing to change to accommodate them. If I personally find a habit inconsiderate, why would I just one day decide to accept it. I am not banging my head against the wall hoping for them to change. 100 percent of the women in this country are not Argentine. I will not be put in jail for not dating an Argentine woman, nor will people throw rocks at me for not dating an Argentine women. If you had a choice between dating someone who's customs are more of a match, and someone who is a complete mismatch, why the shit would you choose the mismatch? This is also not a hate thread on Argentine women. I said from the beginning that according to how I am, Argentine women, or at least porteñas, are the worst match.

Is that clear enough?

I am not suggesting you try to make it work between you and Argentine women, I am merely suggesting that if you were a bit more flexible in your opinions, you might complain less and enjoy more the moment.

 

[SecretShopper]

I am not suggesting you try to make it work between you and Argentine women, I am merely suggesting that if you were a bit more flexible in your opinions, you might complain less and enjoy more the moment.

This was a one time observation complaint. And the purpose was just to see if others had similar experiences. It appears to be a cultural habit according to other posts in this thread. And there is no flexibility to be had. If two people are opposites, neither should pursue the other. That is the literal reason why the divorce rate is 50 percent... because of people being "flexible." I find the dating habits here very very very bad. Therefore I will choose to avoid the headache, like any reasonable person should. I don't need Argentine women to enjoy the moment.

Every person should have their own list of things that are preferable, negotiable, and non-negotiable. The dating habits here fall into the "non-negotiable" category. It's not a matter of who is right and who is wrong. It's a matter of what works for you individually.

 

[jantango]

 

[Alby]

If two people are opposites, neither should pursue the other.

This is the nub of the matter. The assumption is that both parties are pursuing each other, which is a mistake males make when they view females´ behaviour through their own prism. They are not pursuing you. Males pursue females. Females pursue something else. Once you get your head around that, everything becomes clear.

 

[SecretShopper]

What makes this video funny is that it's literally the opposite of what I've experienced from the women here. Maybe you should show it to then instead lol. Bottom line is that for any women, if I do not receive the exact same effort that I put out from day 1, there is a 0 percent chance it works out.

 

[SecretShopper]

This is the nub of the matter. The assumption is that both parties are pursuing each other, which is a mistake males make when they view females´ behaviour through their own prism. They are not pursuing you. Males pursue females. Females pursue something else. Once you get your head around that, everything becomes clear.

You're statement is 100 percent false. And as a male, my experience is more relevant than yours because I've likely dated females more than you have. There's are TONS of females who pursue men just as equally. Maybe not in Argentina. But you're just flat wrong. Every single relationship I've had started because we both pursued each other. I would never pursue someone who isn't pursuing me.