alexios said:
Now don't try to tell me that argentines are racist and americans tolerant. Yes, diversity is strength and we don't have much in Argentina - I work in Los Angeles...so I know about diversity and I've seen more discrimination here than in Bs As (in Bs As is typically because of fear of being robbed or kidnapped, in LA they take it to a more personal level)
Look back a few decades ago, how was the situation with black people in the US before calling us racists.
Alexios
I just have a comment to make on how tolerant Argentinos are related to other races or peoples.
My wife is Paraguayan. My sister-in-law is 14 and goes to a private school in Tortugitas. We live (renting) in a closed neighborhood in Garin, very close to Pilar.
When we were looking for a house, we were refused an offer we made on our favorite house. The real estate agent told me that from then on it would be wise if I went to look at houses myself and didn't bring my wife or her older sister. She didn't make any reference to that being the reason we were refused - supposedly the owner changed her mind and wanted to sell the house instead. A month later the house was still on the market as a rental.
The administrator of the barrio called the gate guards one day shortly after we moved in. We had three remises bring some of my wife's relatives and friends out to the house, most of whom were female. The guards came to my house and asked to see me. They asked me what was going on - was I running some kind of sex party???? Seems the administrator couldn't believe that more than a couple of Paraguayans together could be anyhting but prostitutes.
When we moved into the neighborhood here, my wife met a few of the maids in the neighborhood (who, coincidentally are Paraguayan). Our next door neighbor told her maid that she couldn't believe a family of Paraguayans were moving in next door (it's amazing what people will say to people of the same race they are denigrating, not realizing really that they are even saying anything wrong). She was certain that there were going to be robberies and an invasion of Paraguayans as a result.
When the neighbor found out the husband (me) was an estadounidense, she came over about a month later to invite my wife to a party she was having. Turns out, she sells purses and was inviting people over to show them. My wife bought two purses. The neighbor has since had other parties, not for showing off her wares, but people here in the neighborhood for parilla and what-not. My wife has not been invited. She has, however, since been invited to more purse shows. At least she's not prejudiced against money coming from Paraguayans.
In fact, although we often work outside in the yard, trying to make the place look nicer, I don't think anyone in the neighborhood has said more than two words to us. They are very standoffish and barely respond to our saludos.
My sister-in-law is routinely scorned and ridiculed in school for being a Paraguayan. She works her ass off, is one of the best students in her level. When the other Argentinos demand to copy her work (a very common request, and it is expected to be adhered to by those asking) and she refuses she is called all kinds of names, including "Paraguaya sucia" (dirty Paraguayan). They make fun of her accent and tell her that she lives in Argentina now, she has to talk like everyone else. Isn't she embarrassed to be talking like a Paraguayan?
My brother-in-law works and lives in town in construction. He is supposed to make about 1800 pesos a month (roughly 70 pesos a day). He's lucky if he gets 1200. The foreman, who is Argentino, makes all kinds of excuses as to why he can't be paid the full amount, but promises to make it up to him next month and yet never has. He and the other foreigners on the crew (there's only one Argentino, the rest are Paraguayan and Bolivian) are pretty much treated the same way. He is legal, by the way. But he's Paraguayan, and has a very low self-esteem, and won't fight back. He's terrified he'll be deported, or lose his job and be blacklisted.
So dude, I wouldn't say that the US is anywhere near where it needs to be on race relations (although it did manage to elect a black president!), but you can't even come close to holding up Argentina in general as a country "tolerant" to other peoples. In fact, I've lived in the southern US for most of my life, and I can guarantee that foreigners and black people are treated better as a whole and have more opportunities, and are better protected against those who DO treat foreigners and black people shitty. I come from Houston, which has an extremely large and diverse foreign and black population. We actually managed to live very well together. Maybe Los Angeles isn't the best example of race relations in the US today, but I wouldn't know, I've never lived there.
The fact is, every country/ethnic group has a bit of the fear of the foreign in them, for whatever reason. It seems to be a basic human emotion that people have to constantly fight against.
As far as the US being seen as a bully here - it's that, and more. "Las venas abiertas de America Latina" (remember the book that Chavez gave to Obama?) is required reading in my sister-in-law's school. Her history teacher often makes comments that the US is a very sinister country and is completely at fault for ALL that is wrong in Latin America. While I can't deny that the US does not always do very smart things and is guilty of some pretty stupid crap, people who blame the US for their woes never seem to get around to mentioning the corrupt governments, the rich landholders who continue to have sway, and the huge number of poor who are paid to vote one way and who are kept ignorant because it's easier to control an ignorant population.
Don't get me wrong - I love Argentina. I've lived here for three years, and traveled back and forth for a year before that. As an estadounidense I'm treated well (although I have been shouted out of a cafe before, things almost coming to blows, because I was't welcome in Argentina, according to one hot-head) and have a number of Argentino friends who are very gracious and wonderful people.
Argentina has a lot of good things going for it and could be a world-class economy if it could get past its misguided policies. But for people with their eyes open, it's not even close to being a paradise of brotherhood that many would have everyone think, particularly for the poor and those unfortunate to have been born in even poorer countries who came here to make a better life.