The deal with Argentine men and their "girl" friends

[Lamb]

This pairing is perfectly natural and normal and has been the rule in human history. Why? Men look for physical qualities in women associated with youth; whatever a man may SAY he will nevertheless find hot 15-17 year old girls the most attractive. On the other hand, girls are hypergamous and tend to go for higher status/older men whenever they can.

The reason it happens more in Argentina and South America is because the older women in these countries have not yet banded into a sexual trade union known as "feminism," designed to demonize men for their desires for younger women. The motivation behind women's aversion to older man-younger girl pairings is to eliminate competition and increase their own sexual market value. Your average American 35 yr old woman has ridden countless men in her twenties and now finds that her sexual market value has plummeted. Where can she find a sucker to marry her? Well, you can understand why such women find an interest in "feminism" and in demonizing men who tend to go for younger women.

Except that 15 year olds are girls, not women. And a sexual fantasy is not a relationship, or maybe in your case it is but then i feel quite sorry for you. As other people already mentioned, what do you talk about after the sex? I blame the men for this more than the girls. 15 year old girls are insecure and interested in just about anything, the guy should know better than shagging what could be his own daughter. You deserve your so hated feminism if you pretend the only thing that could possibly draw men to women is how young and fertile they look.

 

[Canick]

wow! I'm finding many of the RANTS on this thread slightly disturbing, and are not really specific to original post which was questioning the normalcy of young teenage girls (14-16) dating men twice their age in Argentina.

My theory is any guy in his 30's who is "dating" a girl in that young age range has some serious issues. Bottom line: he has no self esteem, too frightened to be in a healthy respectful relationship with an 'equal' and was probably an angry frustrated teenage boy who was not accepted by girls when he was 14-16.
if now in his 30's, he dates someone at that young age, he feels worshiped and he somehow avenges his childhood insecurities and humiliations.

this is my fancy way of saying he's a sick bastard and needs some serious help.
oh, and lets not pretend this is just Argentine thing. ELvis was in his mid 20's when dating Pricilla who was 14.
that makes him a great entertainer, but still a sick bastard in my books...

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[Bajo_cero2]

In my eyes, stopping a few "real" couples from dating is a small price to pay for stopping sexual predators. Most 16-year-olds are not mature enough to realize that they are being taken advantage of.

I woudn´t like that my 15 years old daughter date a 30 years old man. I agree with you about this.

Some years ago the law was different the legal age was 14. But they change the law because in the country side, among very poor people, it is normal to find happy families with children and very young mothers. So, it was irrazonable to criminalize that.

So, remember that parents have "patria potestad" that means that they decide over they children until they are 18. So they can ban any relationship they don´t approve.

Regards

 

[zancudito]

That´s because women and girls don´t want young boys because they are bad lovers.

Sometime ago a female friend of mine (17) told me she was tired about the teenagers, that she should date older guys, finally she said: what are you waiting for invite me for dinner? I am 17 years older.

Regards

How old were you at that time?

 

[zancudito]

Frankly - that just makes me go ewwwww. What the hell does a 30+ year old man have in common with a teenager? It really is just mind-boggling. What kind of maturity level does the man (not) have to want to date someone that young? The gap in life experiences is enormous.

I've never seen it and frankly, if one of my friends was dating a teenager - I don't think I would be hanging out with him.

Who says all 30+ men are mature? Don't you have any examples of just the opposite? I can tell you...

 

[zancudito]

I agree, there are less hang ups than you'd find back in UK/Ireland.



You call it hangups but maybe thats just a nice way of justifying icky behavior..13 years is nada if youre 50 and the girl is 37..but if your 30 and shes 17...ughhh.. Its basically open prostitution in showbiz circles it seems..I laughmy socks off at Charly Garcis who has been dating his 22yr old girlfriend for 3 years..and hes what pushing 60...ok so tell me when the mad sex thing wears of what do they talk about...?

17 to 30, It is illegal in many countries.. but to me, It is exactly the same as 2 years later: 19 to 32.
UGHHH I would say is 24 to 84 and Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris do not seem to mind.

 

[John.St]

wow! I'm finding many of the RANTS on this thread slightly disturbing, ...
Bottom line: he has no self esteem, too frightened to be in a healthy respectful relationship with an 'equal' and was probably an angry frustrated teenage boy who was not accepted by girls when he was 14-16.
etc., etc., etc.

Talk about rants.

 

[davonz]

I have noticed the big difference in age between people going out/sleeping together here - and the locals dont seem to have a problem with it..
And while i dont agree with someone under 20 having sex with someone twice their age.. i think its to do with the maturity of people here.. Usually i find people 5 or 10 years younger than me boring to be around.. because usually i dont have anything in common with them, and more so here, maybe because they dont travel, have a very insular view of the world etc.. not that everyone is like that, but i find is very common here..

Also i find that people up until 30/35 seem to be very immature, and i wonder if its something to do with living at home with parents until they are in their 30's.. basically they dont have to stand on their own 2 feet..
Off course this isnt everyone, but its very common..

 

[John.St]

This pairing is perfectly natural and normal and has been the rule in human history. Why? Men look for physical qualities in women associated with youth; whatever a man may SAY he will nevertheless find hot 15-17 year old girls the most attractive. On the other hand, girls are hypergamous and tend to go for higher status/older men whenever they can.

Exactly.

Human males are genetically hardwired to seek out females who can get the most children = young; and human females are similarly hardwired to find the male, who can give her children the best deal = a good provider.

This is well known and has been documented in the scientific litterature over and over again.

 

[Napoleon]

Sick, i wouldnt even date a 35 year old now, and im 23. No matter what the law says, or how much people should be free to have their own morals etc,... If i think back on how i was, and how my friends were, when we were 15, then a guy having sex with a girl like that... just makes me want to puke?

I worry about Lamb's bulimia much more than I worry about age differences among couples.

Exactly.

Human males are genetically hardwired to seek out females who can get the most children = young; and human females are similarly hardwired to find the male, who can give her children the best deal = a good provider.

This is well known and has been documented in the scientific litterature over and over again.

I really wish that John.St would NOT bring science into an emotionally charged subjective argument. That's just like a man to use science and studies to prove your point. That's despicable!

(because most 15 year old girls haven't read those studies yet)